9 Reasons to Wear Lingerie Even If You Don't Feel Like It!


A terrible trait that the average woman nurtures is that she believes she doesn't look sexy.
Guess what?

Every woman is sexy, so let that soak into your DNA and get it established in your mind. Another thing to remember is that the man in your life does not think the same way as you do. Men think women are sexy...period. Doesn't that take the pressure off and make it less stressful to have "perfect" body parts that will make you sexy? You don't have to feel like you need to change something in hopes of becoming sexy, right? So now you don't have to worry about it because you are ALWAYS SEXY and feel it.

Great!
No? I didn't convince you?

Even if you don't think you look sexy, wearing fancy lingerie will help to change your mind. The material will either flow or cling to your body seductively and help to change your negative attitude about yourself.

Lingerie can spice up a relationship quickly especially because men are very visual beings. That means men like to see an image and looking at the image of a woman in lingerie gets his imagination working overtime. If the woman he is looking at is you, then he will quickly respond to your amorous advances.

The key to all this is that you must first put the lingerie on your sexy body! So here are some good reasons to wear lingerie even if you don't feel sexy in it:

•Everyone can wear lingerie - Regardless of age, color, weight or size, everyone can wear lingerie.

•There are no rules for lingerie - There are thousands of styles and colors of lingerie and none of them are wrong. You simply cannot go wrong no matter what piece of lingerie you choose to adorn your body!

•Lingerie will help you to enjoy your body - When wearing lingerie, you are going to feel better about your body because your lover's eyes are going to show his appreciation for the extra effort you made to get his attention. It is the same for you as it is for him. If he brings you flowers, chocolates or puts on your favorite cologne, you are going to notice. You lover will enjoy your body which automatically helps you enjoy it even more. Appreciation runs both ways.

•Lingerie is romantic - Of course lingerie is romantic! Throw in a few candles and a little mood music with fancy lingerie and it creates an amazing romantic moment. Everyone has a favorite look for their lover. Some women like uniforms while others like boxers. Tastes in the "the look" change, but we all have a preference and men love fancy lingerie on their beautiful and sexy lover.

•Lingerie enhances your good features - If I haven't convinced you of your sexual beauty yet, then you need to sit in front of the mirror and have a long talk with yourself. Men don't stay with women they think are ugly. Men are entangled with women they think are sexy and that includes you. Wearing lingerie will enhance all the features you like the best, so have a little fun and go for it!

•Lingerie hides aging - It's just a fact that we are all getting older, but lingerie can hide a few imperfections here and there. Men don't expect a perfect body, so keep that in the back of your mind. If hiding a little here and there gives you more confidence, then wearing a piece of fancy lingerie is definitely going to make you happy.

•Lingerie improves your self-esteem - When a woman feels like shes looks sexy, she feels better about herself and acts more sexy! Seeing the look of desire and appreciation in your lover's eyes when you appear wearing a gorgeous teddy or flowing gown will boost your self-esteem a thousand percent. •Lingerie enhances sex - When you feel good about yourself in fancy lingerie, there is a dramatic increase in your desire and desirability to participate in passionate sex. I see that side effect of lingerie as a total positive.

•Lingerie makes you feel sexy - Prom dresses make you feel pretty. Wedding dresses make you feel beautiful. Lingerie makes you feel sexy. Enhancing your sex appeal for you and your lover adds a spark in the relationship and doing it often enough will add a bonfire! If you don't feel sexy, be sure to add some fancy lingerie to your wardrobe and wear it the first opportunity you have with your lover. He will appreciate it and you'll thank your sexy self later.

By The Redhead Riter W.A.W.S. Woman Aging With Style

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Posted by The RedheadRiter on December 3, 2011 at 1:50 PM under
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  1. karen on December 4, 2011 at 9:21 PM said:
    Hmmm...Nope didn't quite convince me :-)) Aren't my flannel jammas sexy enough? Great post!
  2. karen on December 4, 2011 at 9:23 PM said:
    And no matter what lingerie I put on, I'm not going to look like those photos! I'll look better!
  3. Sharleena on January 20, 2012 at 8:51 PM said:
    I told my kids we'd play after I found what I neeedd. Damnit.
  4. Wanita on January 20, 2012 at 8:51 PM said:
    Back in socohl, I'm doing so much learning.
  5. Namitha on February 24, 2012 at 3:15 AM said:
    Nice info... Enjoyed your post.
  6. Pommygirl on May 5, 2012 at 8:24 AM said:
    This article failed to convince me at all. I've tried to like lingerie, it's my boyfriend's favourite thing, but I keep getting it wrong. I've had professional fittings and bought cheap and expensive things, I still feel like crap wearing it and it's hard to put a smile on my face. It makes me feel terrible because he indulges the things I like. I feel utterly inadequate for not being able to enjoy his thing. I tried again a couple of nights ago. I dressed up in garter, stockings, bra and heels and greeted him when he got home. He was kissing me, touching me, then he asked "are you comfortable?" He was checking that nothing was digging in and that I was okay, but stupid me but to be brutally honest- "No, I'm not comfortable in this stuff, it doesn't feel like me." Lingerie doesn't help me enjoy my body, or feel romantic, and it certainly doesn't improve my self esteem. I can't make it look good like the ladies in the magazines do. I can't stop the bulges or restrictive elastic and lace. I can't hide how awkward it makes me feel. I clicked on this article hoping it could give me some guidance on how to feel better about wearing these things, but it's just more 'But OF COURSE it's more sexy and you MUST feel that way'
  7. Lingerie blog on August 7, 2012 at 6:56 AM said:
    True indeed. Lingerie will boost your confidence a lot, don't feel ashamed to wear it. Give your men a surprise!
  8. Amy on May 17, 2013 at 9:21 AM said:
    Pommygirl, I just read your comment and I completely understand where you are coming from. I just hope you know that you do not have to wear the garters and the hose, etc. Start with a little teddy. I love teddys because they enhance my bust but flow out below so that nothing is 'tight'. Then I leave it at that! Maybe some heels. Then you could move to vintage style lingerie, that was made for women with more curves. If you want to wear the button down flannel, wear a very sexy bra and underwear underneath. Little things like that make a huge difference.
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